What you’re learning about getting the relationship you want isn’t true.
For years every time a relationship didn’t work out, no matter how obvious reason for its demise, I would think, “This is an opportunity to keep working on myself so I attract the kind of person I really want to be with.”
Whether you’re single and looking, or in a relationship and not happy, the solution is not what you think. It’s not about being a better partner. It’s not about making yourself better either.
Of course those things are valuable, but they’re missing a huge piece of the puzzle for women!
I worked consciously on being the best version of me, and I was a loving and generous person. Yet I continuously attracted selfish men who took me for granted. Or nice men who I had no interest in. The roller coaster of starting a relationship on a high and ending it on a sour note was discouraging and draining, to say the least.
Can you relate?
Now, imagine a man whose guiding philosophy on relationships is this…
“The woman brings the magic and the delight. The man’s role is to do everything he can to create an environment that allows her magic to flourish.”
O. M. G. !!!!!
I fell in love with this man before I heard those words come out of his mouth, because his character exudes this kind of mindblowing generosity and insight. Oh, and he’s easy on the eyes too.
So here I am at the first year mark of this epic connection and love affair, reflecting on what made the difference. The short list is:
Get clear on what you want. Not what he looks like, not where he’s from, but what kind of man is he? How does he treat you? How does he make you feel?
Prioritize your well-being in your life. What makes you feel good? What do you enjoy? What makes your light shine? Make all those factors present in your life so that you walk with a deep well of happiness, rather than lack or desperation.
Be deeply committed to your pleasure and your desires. This is the lifeblood of your intuition, and your intuition will not lead you astray. It’s when we don’t listen to our intuition that we end up thinking, “What the heck was I thinking??”
If those three guiding principals are present in your life, you won’t settle and you won’t waste your time on the jerks. If you’re already in a committed relationship and you start shifting gears toward shining your light, your partner will love the difference so much he’ll do what he can to facilitate (“Happy wife, happy life” is true!!).
The real problem is, most women are so swamped with life that they’re completely disconnected from their pleasure and desire. They don’t know how to tap into their intuition so they can get clear on what they want and who they want to be with.
If that’s true for you, I invite you to schedule a free breakthrough coaching session with me. It’s a powerful step to getting on the road to happiness, connection, and vibrant living.
This offer is not for you if you prefer to blame others for your problems and aren’t willing to operate differently to get different results.
This offer is for you if you’re interested in solutions and you want to make the changes necessary to feel amazing in your everyday life.
Take the plunge. Click HERE to schedule your call today.
Lots of love,